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When you become a mum, something fundamental shifts inside you.
Your body goes into always-on mode — and it’s meant to.
You are biologically designed to stay alert: to hear every shuffle, every murmur, every cry. To wake instantly to feed your baby, help them sleep, nurture them, protect them. In those early months, it can feel like you’re never truly asleep at all. Your nervous system is constantly tuned in.
Behind every mum is a nervous system working overtime — doing exactly what it’s designed to do to keep our children safe.
But here’s what often happens.
When the body stays in this heightened state of alert for too long — especially alongside broken sleep and exhaustion — it begins to interpret “always on” as stress. Cortisol, our stress hormone, is released more frequently. Survival mode creeps in. And suddenly what started as protective instinct can tip into overwhelm, anxiety, and burnout — something I now see daily in my work as an Child Sleep Consultant & breathwork coach supporting parents.
I know this because I lived it.
Even as my children grew and sleep improved, the exhaustion of life didn’t magically disappear. The mental load was still there — the constant planning, worrying, and second-guessing. Am I doing the right thing? Am I doing enough? Add in juggling children, a career, a husband who travelled a lot for work, very little time for myself… and then hormones on top of all of that.
It felt like a lot.
As women approach their period or move into perimenopause, progesterone — our natural calming hormone — drops. That drop alone can trigger anxiety, mood changes, and disrupted sleep. When you layer that onto an already overstimulated nervous system, it’s no wonder so many mums feel constantly on edge and begin searching for support like breathwork for anxiety and emotional regulation.
This is where breathwork quietly entered my life.
Not in a dramatic way. I wasn’t sitting cross-legged at the end of the garden trying to be a Buddha. I started with just a few intentional breaths here and there — small moments of pause in the middle of chaos. And I noticed something shift. My body softened. My mind slowed. I could move from frazzled to grounded much more quickly.
What breathwork does — especially gentle, nervous-system-focused breathwork for parents — is activate the parasympathetic nervous system: the rest and digest state.
Breathwork supports the vagus nerve, the longest cranial nerve in the body, which runs from the brainstem through the neck, heart, lungs, and into the gut. This nerve plays a huge role in calming the body, regulating stress, and helping us feel safe again.
Stress, sleep deprivation, and overstimulation — all common parts of motherhood — can dysregulate the vagus nerve. Breathwork is one of the most accessible and effective ways to bring it back into balance, especially for parents experiencing chronic overwhelm or anxiety.
The more I leaned into breathwork, the more I saw its impact — not just on my stress levels, but on my patience, my sleep, and my emotional resilience. It became something I relied on. So I went deeper. I trained. And I became a breathwork coach specialising in breathwork for parents and breathwork for anxiety.
Now, when parents come to me, I can see it immediately — the stress, the overwhelm, the anxiety carried quietly in their bodies. I hear it in conversations with friends and family too: the invisible mental load, the little time we give ourselves, and the sense that life only keeps getting busier.
Breathwork is now an essential part of both my personal and professional life. Not as another thing to do, but as a way to support the nervous system that’s been carrying so much for so long.
Because motherhood isn’t meant to feel like constant survival.
And calm doesn’t require silence, perfection, or hours of free time — sometimes it starts with just one intentional breath.
If this resonates, there are a few gentle ways to explore support — all designed to fit into real, everyday life:
• Sleep & Breathwork Support Packages — personalised guidance for both your child’s sleep and your nervous system
• Breathwork for Parents — guided breathwork videos you can use at home, in short moments
• Upcoming Events — in-person and online sessions focused on calm, regulation, and connection
👉 You can explore all of these on my website, starting with the Breathwork for Parents section.
You’re not broken.
Your nervous system has just been carrying a lot.
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